When it comes to parenting teenagers, you do what's got to be done. And in many cases that means you'll be embarrassing your kids on plenty of occasions. 
If you're lucky (and persistent) your kids will discover that the embarrassment is a given and they'll just have to live with it. Since I'm midway through Teenager #2, I've got the whole embarrassing-my-kids thing down to a science by now. While she will deign to be seen with her parents in public, making us luckier than some, she really hates when we have to do something that makes us act like parents.
Case in point: when she's invited to a party or out with a group of friends we don't know well yet, we'll stage The Interrogation. We ask the Usual Questions: who's going to be there? Who's driving? Will there be grownups at home? What's the time frame? And then we pull out the Big Guns: Let me call the parents and make sure they're OK with these plans and that they'll be there.
She hates this. She acts as if we're the only parents who do this. Fortunately we can refer her to her brother so she understands that we embarrassed him in this fashion as well, and that we're not "discriminating" against her because she's a girl. But she's getting used to it. Now when she asks if she can go out with friends, I just respond, "The usual terms and conditions apply." Then I leave it to her to fill in the blanks.
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