This is the time of year when you start to see threatening billboards by the side of the highway.

I'm talking about the jewelry ads that appear on billboards as well as magazine covers and inside newspapers.  In years gone by, jewelry ads used to be about the jewelry. jewelry-tree

Now they imply that husbands/boyfriends/significant others will be in a whole lot of trouble if they don't come through with that ring, necklace or tennis bracelet this holiday season.

Jewelry's a wonderful gift, but it comes with all kinds of ad-driven expectations.  You can't just put a jewelry box under the tree, if you watch the commercials.  You have to hide it--but not too well--so she'll find it just at that special moment.  You have to find a clever way to say "I love you" along with that box of jewelry.

Forget the commercials.  If you're giving jewelry this year, do it because you want to and because you know it will be a treasured gift.  And find your own special moment to give that special gift.  (Just remember, adding an engagement ring to anything edible--or a beverage--can turn that special moment into an occasion to use the Heimlich maneuver.)

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