My older kids enjoy having their friends sleep over.  I shouldn't really say "sleep" since no one does too much of that.  In cold weather, most of their time is divided between eating and playing video games.  gamers-always-welcome

The girls are very single-minded when it comes to playing games.  While we have a big variety here--a good bunch of Mario games, Wii Sports, Animal Crossing and more--the only game the girls want to play is Dance Dance Revolution.  They could dance all night.  And even though only one player at a time can use that game (we've only got one mat), all the other girls line up next to her and dance right along.  The game, for them, is definitely second to the social time that a sleepover (or as one of my friends calls it, an "awake over") provides.

Boys play very differently.  When it's not their turn to play, whether it's Guitar Hero or Grand Theft Auto, they'll wander over to the computer and play a game there.  At any given time, there could be two or three different games happening--sometimes they'll even get a two-player game started on the Nintendo DS.

In general, the girls are noisier.  I don't hear too much from the boys when they're here, unless someone has commandeered a cement mixer in GTA.  And when the boys finally tire of gaming, they don't sit around and giggle loudly.  They go outside and stage a light-sabre battle, or take aim at each other with marshmallow shooters.

The rule around here is that if they wake up their little brother, they have to play with him.  So far we haven't had to make good on that threat.  We adults do generally get a decent amount of sleep, especially since we try to space out these sleepovers so we aren't hosting more than one bunch of kids on a given weekend.  Generally, though, we don't mind hosting.  We get to know our teens' friends, and we know where they are and what they're doing.

And around 4 AM, no matter who they are, they'll grab a blanket and pillow and conk out.  We'll wake up in the morning to find them sprawled all over the room, and try not to trip over them on our way to make breakfast.

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